In Memory Of Jefferson James Lam

29th September 2000 – 1st April 2007

This memorial website was created in the memory of Jefferson James Lam, born in Methodist Hospital of S. California, Arcadia, Los Angeles on the 29th September 2000 and passed away on the 1st April 2007, 6 years of age.

Full Name: Jefferson James Lam

Born: 29th September 2000

Passed Away: 1st April 2007

Age: 6 years of age

Location: Kowloon Tong

Country: Hong Kong

Father: JACKY YL LAM

Mother: Mimi Chan

Birth Place: Methodist Hospital of S. California, Arcadia, Los Angeles

Siblings: JARVIS

Created by Mimi & Jacky on 9 Apr 2007 & upgraded by Lam Yat Leung Jacky

EULOGY 1 BY MS. PHYLLIS CHAN EULOGY 11 BY AUNTIE CARMEN FUNERAL SERVICE NOTICE

Our beloved son, Jefferson was diagnosed with brain tumor (brainstem glioma) after returning from his summer holiday in Europe, 2006. The left side of his body had been gradually deteriorating since the end of July.

For the past eight months or so, we have done our very best to seek medical advice from all over the world with the help of our friends. Without other options, our son had brain surgery twice, radiotherapy and two kinds of chemotherapy as well as many different kinds of Chinese herbal tea and alternative treatments.

Although he enjoyed his school life very much till December of last year, as parents, we feel guilty because we were not able to nurture him and give him good health and a bountiful life. However, he never said a single word to blame us even though we knew he was suffering a lot.

His courage in facing reality and his determination to fight the deadly disease proved that he was much stronger than his parents. He fought all the way up to his last heartbeat and breath while we collapsed after realizing that his disease was incurable. We want to thank the Lord for He has comforted us during this difficult time. We know that Jesus is taking good care of Jefferson and ultimately we shall meet him again in heaven.

In the meantime, his smiling face is always on our minds!

Poetry In Memory of Jefferson Lam

I'll Meet You At The Gate

Photo Albums

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Condolence Guest Book

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30 Aug 2012 – Patty from McLean, VA

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Beautiful boy. I am sorry for your loss. No greater pain than the loss of a child. You are in my thoughts and prayers

12 Mar 2011 – Nyemah from Cedarville,NJ

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Hello Lam family I am so sorry for your lost what a tragedy my name is Nyemah and I am one of Jehovahs Witnesses and I would like to share a bible scripture with you found in John 5:28,29 I hope this will bring your family comfort in this time of distress

2 May 2010 – Uncle Paul & Auntie Carme from San Francisco

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Thinking of you... Jefferson

29 Apr 2009 – Eian from Castro Valley, CA

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Jacky/Mimi: You are great parents. Rebekah & I appreciate our friendship and always miss your family. Eian

26 Dec 2008 – Beatriz y Juan from Spain

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We always remember you in this dates.

24 Jul 2008 – Christine Chan from HONG KONG

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i miss you! jefferson! ilove yousoo much :)

11 Apr 2008 – Klaus J. Calvo from Barcelona (Spain)

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Dear Jefferson Lam, I had the pleasure to meet this year your father for first time in Cabrils (Barcelona)[Spain]. After spending two days together, I'm convinced he must has been the best dady to & for you. May The Good Lord Bless And Keep You ! Klaus J. Calvo

31 Mar 2008 – Uncle Jay

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Dear Jefferson, As I say in class all the time, “Time flies!” It’s been a year since you’ve been gone and I still think about you every day. Your mom gave me a nice photo of you and it’s on my whiteboard. I think of you when I see your brother every Thursday. You know I don’t like comparing kids because every kid is different. However, I think you should know that your brother is doing pretty well (at least when he’s in my class). I have a list of unbelievable kids. It started when one...» read more

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26 May 2013 Dave from Sendai placed this flower & wrote: Miss you!	4 Apr 2013 juan Beltran placed this flower & wrote: I will never forget your smile	1 Apr 2013 Mummy placed this flower & wrote: I love you!

29 Sep 2012 Mummy placed this flower & wrote: Sweetie. Happy Birthday! I love you very very much.	1 Apr 2012 Mummy placed this flower & wrote: Love you forever!	1 Apr 2012 Jarvis placed this flower & wrote: Are you having fun ? The whole family miss youuuuuuuu!

8 Dec 2011 Christine Chan placed this flower & wrote: I miss you.......Be happy Jefferson!	8 Oct 2011 Dad placed this flower & wrote: Miss you very much!	14 Aug 2011 nicole williams placed this flower & wrote: may you have fun playing in the playground of haven with my baby "Madison"

8 Apr 2011 Mummy placed this flower & wrote: I LOVE YOU	31 Mar 2011 Auntie Keren placed this flower	13 Dec 2010 Inam Amjad placed this flower & wrote: Agnels never die

22 Sep 2010 Karina Leung placed this flower	5 Apr 2010 Mimi Chan placed this flower	15 Nov 2009 Christine placed this flower & wrote: I miss you. (L)

28 Oct 2009 Ben Fimg placed this flower & wrote: Miss you Jefferson	1 Apr 2009 Mummy placed this flower & wrote: Sweety, I love you forever.	14 Feb 2009 Dad placed this flower & wrote: Happy Valentine's Day My Son!

22 Jan 2009 Elizabeth placed this flower & wrote: Darling Angel	20 Nov 2008 Marius Chow placed this flower & wrote: wishing you a happy life in heaven	14 Nov 2008 Eddie's Family placed this flower

27 Oct 2008 celia placed this flower & wrote: You're a preciouse angel in heaven	20 Oct 2008 Yvette D. placed this flower & wrote: "At Peace In The Arms Of The Angels". . . Jesus Loves You	16 Oct 2008 Jacky Chan placed this flower & wrote: To a brave kid

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Dad lit this candle on 1 Apr 2013	Aholi lit this candle on 4 Jul 2012	Jarvis lit this candle on 1 Apr 2012

Dad lit this candle on 23 Mar 2012	Mummy lit this candle on 10 Oct 2011	nicole williams lit this candle on 14 Aug 2011

linca dorina lit this candle on 8 Apr 2011	Paul lit this candle on 6 Apr 2011	Dad lit this candle on 30 Sep 2010

Uncle Paul & Auntie Carmen lit this candle on 2 May 2010	Rio Kowk lit this candle on 2 May 2010	Alex Lee lit this candle on 25 Mar 2010

Tim CHENG lit this candle on 15 Mar 2010	angela lit this candle on 10 Aug 2009	Leong's Family lit this candle on 1 Aug 2008

chan lit this candle on 16 Nov 2007	Michael, Carina and Rod LAU lit this candle on 11 Nov 2007	gwen wiley lit this candle on 30 Oct 2007

Maggie lit this candle on 18 Jul 2007	Ginny Cline lit this candle on 27 May 2007	Andy Leung lit this candle on 22 May 2007

Andy Leung lit this candle on 10 May 2007	Ryan Mak lit this candle on 25 Apr 2007	Robert Ang lit this candle on 24 Apr 2007

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Family & Friends

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Christine Cousin	Mimi Mother	Jacky Uncle

José Luis Friend	Jay Friend	Inam Passer By / Other

David Uncle	Paul Uncle	Carmen Aunty

Christine Cousin	James Uncle	Rosella Aunty